We're Engaged. Now What?
A calm beginning to planning a wedding together
Your first book, on us
FIRST DECISIONS
Our Kind of Wedding
Find the celebration you both want, and put it into words you can use.
- 28 pages · 49 fillable writing spaces
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A FEW PAGES, JUST AS THEY ARE
The First Picture in Your Head
Before collecting more ideas, describe the wedding you picture when nobody else is making suggestions. You may see a whole room or only a moment: entering together, sitting at a long table, hearing a familiar song. Write the picture without checking whether it is fashionable or complete. A fragment can reveal a preference that a finished mood board would hide.
A question to make your own
Partner A and Partner B: My first picture
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About this book.
One of you may picture a long lunch while the other imagines an evening full of music and people. This workbook gives both pictures room, with individual and shared prompts that help you name the experiences you want and describe your wedding in words you can return to.
Is this your next book?
Couples finding a shared direction before choosing the details.
- Explore the reason you want to gather
- Name preferences for setting, scale, food, and music
- Choose traditions and decide what to leave out
- Bring both partners' wishes into a one-page wedding description
See every chapter and writing page 24
- The First Picture in Your Head
- What I Would Choose on My Own
- Why We Want to Gather
- How We Want People to Arrive
- The Moments We Would Miss
- What the Room Sounds and Feels Like
- What Size Gathering Feels Like Us?
- A Setting That Helps the Day
- Dressed Up, Relaxed, or Somewhere Between
- Traditions We Choose Freely
- The Cultures and Beliefs We Bring
- What We Are Happy to Leave Out
- Colors We Want to Live With for a Day
- The Music and the Energy
- What Sharing a Meal Means to Us
- Comfort Is Part of the Welcome
- Being Seen, Being Photographed
- The People We Want Beside Us
- Where We Want to Put Our Effort
- Use Inspiration Without Copying a Whole Wedding
- When Our Pictures Look Different
- If the First Plan Does Not Fit
- Describe Our Wedding on One Page
- What We Will Come Back To
